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The BDSM, fetish, and sex communities in San Francisco are, in general, very together. Some of the most caring, giving and nicest people I have ever met are in these communities. Now, one of our own needs some help. That someone is none other than the great Patrick Califia. Patrick has suffered from a chronic pain condition, fibromyalgia, for a long time. Because of nerve damage in his legs, he has some problems with mobility. The fibromyalgia also makes it hard for him to concentrate and gives him memory problems. Typing is difficult because he has numbness and pain in his hands and forearms. He is currently relocating to San Francisco where he can again be with friends and community. Information on how to help can be found at the bottom of this article. For those of you who don't know, Patrick (who is transgendered) was one of the founders of the first lesbian S/M support group, Samois, and helped get Coming to Power, the first anthology of writing on this topic, into print. As coordinator of the Society of Janus during the late '70s, he was responsible for that organization's first appearance at San Francisco's gay pride march. He has served in leadership positions in many leather organizations, such as the Lesbian Sex Mafia and the National Leather Association and spoken at universities, and BDSM events all over the world, such as Skin Two's Rubber Ball in London and the Sydney, Australia leather pride conference. He has taught classes at Denver's Thunder in the Mountain for three years, and will be the keynote speaker at this year's Leather Leadership Conference in Boston. Patrick is the author of several pioneering works of erotic fiction, including Macho Sluts and No Mercy, and authored Sensuous Magic, a guide to BDSM sex written especially for couples. Patrick has been an outspoken opponent of censorship of BDSM literature, and his work is frequently seized by Canadian Customs. He was proud to testify on behalf of a gay bookstore in Vancouver, Little Sisters, which successfully challenged that censorship. He stretched the boundaries of feminism, drawing the ire of the antipornography movement, and was one of the creators of pro-pleasure feminism. Through essays and other writings like those collected in Public Sex he has challenged prejudice against our community and expanded our sense of who we are to include spirituality and activism as well as sexuality. We thought that a better way for you to get to know Patrick was to ask people in the community their impressions of Patrick. Below is what we received: "I don't think many people roll over in bed after a delicious fuck and say, 'My god, I have Patrick Califia to thank for this,' but if they knew better, they would. Califia's work has revolutionized the way we talk about sex, the way we enjoy sex, and our political awareness of how sex touches us in a million intimate ways. He ought to be getting a pension from every lover in America, and I hope the people who realize that will come to his aid at this difficult time."Patrick continues to work as much as possible and would like to avoid applying for social security disability benefits for as long as possible. Patrick has no health insurance but could apply for this through the National Writers Union. He is moving back to San Francisco and needs a safe, quiet place to live with his cat. He could also really benefit from voice recognition software for his Mac so he can keep on writing when his hands are not working right. At some point in the future he may need to get an electric wheelchair. But for now the urgent need is for housing and medical expenses. Any financial gift you can provide will help and will be very appreciated, so that he can find a secure living space for himself and his cat, as he is moving back to the Bay Area this very month. You can send a check to: Patrick Califia 2215R Market Street, No. 261, San Francisco, CA 94114. Or an easy, quick way to respond is by using Paypal. Patrick's email address for a Paypal response is: patcalifia@aol.com.
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